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Being honest with others about our own truths might be the most challenging. In our daily struggles, many times, we hope to be seen, appreciated and acknowledged. However, behind this expectation, there is also a fear of being exposed for our shortcomings, and worrying about others’ judgments and rejection.

Everyone grows up in the unknown, during this journey there are joys, sorrows, losses, and regrets along the way. Choosing to hide how we feel or express our thoughts may be due to concerns about how others perceive us or the desire to maintain our own image. To some extent, this creates a pattern of distancing, enduring all matters silently. This leads some of us to either avoid discussing awkwardness or painful topics, hide in a corner with tears, or let anger burn from inside out. Alternatively, in the politeness of half-truths, relationships gradually fade or break.

Speaking the truth requires the nurturing of trust, courage, and firm determination. However, the most crucial aspect is accepting our own imperfections, acknowledging our blind spots, and understanding that everyone has faced challenges and learned from them. This kind of honesty not only allows us to face ourselves more authentically but also enables others to share resonance in this sincere connection.

In conclusion, being honest with others may be challenging but is a key step in building trustworthy relationships. Taking this brave step allows us to have more compassion, authenticity, and, consequently, more confidence and security in our interactions with others.