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Feeling the pain of others doesn’t mean we have to take responsibility for it. While we can understand and share someone else’s suffering, it doesn’t imply that we are obligated to be responsible for their difficulties. This ability to empathize is a virtue of human nature, encouraging us to care more about others and build closer social connections.

However, taking responsibility is a different matter. Everyone has their own life and responsibilities, and we can’t always be responsible for the pain of others. Expressing understanding and support for someone’s suffering is crucial, but at the right time, we also need to protect our own energy and emotional well-being.

Sometimes, we may feel powerless and unable to directly change someone else’s situation. In such cases, we can offer emotional support, encouragement, and a listening ear, but it doesn’t mean we must shoulder the responsibility of solving all their problems. Everyone needs to find a balance between empathy and personal responsibility to ensure that we can provide warmth to others while maintaining inner equilibrium.

Feeling the pain of others is a beautiful quality, but it’s important to be realistic about taking on responsibilities. Through understanding and support, we can create a warmer and more caring environment in society.