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Before seeking opinions from others, it’s important to clarify your own thoughts. This is a crucial step because only when we understand our own stance and desires can we seek advice and opinions from others more effectively.

Sometimes, we might be influenced by the opinions of those around us, causing our own views to become unclear. In such situations, taking the time to think and clarify our own perspectives in advance can help us express ourselves more confidently and better understand the viewpoints of others.

Try to answer the question: what is the headline of my thoughts?

Having a clear understanding of our thoughts also facilitates effective communication. When we know what we want clearly, we can communicate with others more distinctly and are more likely to reach consensus. This self-awareness also contributes to building relationships that are more profound and authentic.

Taking the time to reflect and organize our thoughts before engaging with others is valuable. It doesn’t mean rejecting the opinions of others but rather aiming to listen and absorb various perspectives for making wiser decisions. In this process, we not only improve our self-understanding but also enhance our interactions with others, collectively fostering more positive and productive communication.